Friday, May 26, 2006

Get your kid to say Goodbye to their Materialistic Streak


Today I watched an episode of "The Oprah Winfrey Show" which had Maria Shriver and her mom, Eunice Kennedy Shriver, as guests.

At one point, Maria mention how her parents never get excited about materials/objects, but they were able to get their children to be excited about ideas. I thought that was a really great pointer, particularly in this materialistic world. How do parents veer their children away from a materialistic mindset onto something far more meaningful in life.

20 Comments:

Blogger Pradeep Puranik said...

Good post.

The only way the parents can teach values to their children is by personally modeling those values.

Being excited about ideas, being open to new ones, being ready to think and question, being willing to express ideas, to discuss... Those are signs of maturity.

Mature parents can certainly influence their children to be mature.

Maria Shriver seems to have been truly fortunate.

Cheers!

5:38 PM  
Blogger kimmyk said...

Ahhh good question Queen Bee!

Kids are materialistic....mine are I know that...especially my son. He's this way now cause his friends are this way......peer pressure.

12:45 AM  
Blogger Jackal said...

its almost impossible in todays world.....i think it has to drilled from a very early age....

4:08 AM  
Blogger teacup said...

hey just dropped in to say hi...long time...so how are u? and what happnd to that frnd of ur's whose kid was misbehaving? did u finnally manage to tell her? hehee..ok have to do a lot of catchin up...will come back after 10th june...see ya then..tk, bye:)

2:30 PM  
Blogger Unknown said...

I aree with kimmy...No matter how much parents instil the true value of real life..materialism creeps in thru friends...Quiet hard in today's world!

11:41 AM  
Blogger Queen Bee said...

@Pradeep:
The role of parents are so important. They will be amazed how much their role-modelling affects their children, and even other's children around them.

Children are very impressionable. It's easy to change for the worse but never so simple to be firm for the better :) Parents, be firm!


@Kimmy:
I suppose we will continue to do the good works in our children to counter any bad seeds that are planted. Go for it, Kimmy!!! YEAH!


@Jackal:
That's why it's not easy to be raising a child. I am really thankful to my parents for all their efforts and hard work ;)


@Yashita:
My friend has planted her family more actively in church these days. I must say that prayers work for her kid. Nowsday he is more sensible, though still temperamental sometimes. My friend is working on her husband to help play a supporting disciplinary role too. A supportive family is important.


@Curious:
Kids really are a big huge commitment...Parents mustn't give up.:))

2:51 PM  
Blogger still_figuring_out said...

hi!

how have you been?

a question to ponder, definitely..

3:28 PM  
Blogger Queen Bee said...

Hi SFO!!!
You are finally back! :)
So happy to hear from you after so long. ;)

12:18 PM  
Blogger Jackal said...

hi ..plzz take a look at my new post urgently..n help to save some one..

4:49 PM  
Blogger Pradeep Puranik said...

Where art thou, O great Queen? :)

7:47 PM  
Blogger Keshi said...

good one Queen! Well I guess kids will always be kids and there has to be an excitement from materialistic things too. At the same time, we need to guide them more towards 'ideas'...

Keshi.

2:08 PM  
Blogger ± said...

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8:35 PM  
Blogger White Magpie said...

True. Very few do that. A pointer for everyone.

6:23 PM  
Blogger Jackal said...

hmmmmm where r u queennnn ..hop sab theek to hai :)

4:00 AM  
Blogger teacup said...

I thot only I had exams:) wat's keepin u away from the blogworld?update!

2:24 AM  
Blogger Pradeep Puranik said...

Busy bee, busy bee
Where, O where could you be?
Where art thou, O great Queen?

1:07 PM  
Blogger ± said...

update now!!!
*throws a tantrum*

4:08 AM  
Blogger Pradeep Puranik said...

QB, are you all right? You are really beginning to scare the "shoot" out of me. Where are you?

You know, this is the longest anyone has ever stayed away from me without informing me anything. Naturally, I am freaked out. Hope all is fine with you.

Please come back soon.

11:53 PM  
Blogger White Magpie said...

QB, wither art thou?

3:05 PM  
Blogger Keoni Chavez said...

Hi Queenie! It's your wolfie, Akela, back from the land of Nonexistence. I'm going to try to post on a daily basis, beginning with today. As one of the few people who has left comments on my blog a=on a fairly regular basis, I wanted to reconnect with you! I look forward to reading more from you! *muah*

2:46 AM  

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