Right Footing

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Think for this current 'relationship' with my guy friend, I want to go slow... and steady... firm on the right footing.

He's pretty decent too; his friend wanted to introduce some girls at random to him, and my friend's reply was "Do you know them well?". Wow, he does preach what he says because so far, we have been going out, talking, getting to know each other's character better. Nothing on whether we are on a 'relationship', even though honestly speaking, we have been messaging each other everyday and meeting once a week on the weekends. No holding hands, nothing of that sort.

I think that's pretty good. Only when we are very sure about each other, then we will see how we progress.

Another thing is religion. I would like to share my religion with him. It's not obligatory for him to convert but he has to know something that's a part of me and that's my religion. I will be happy if he shares his with me (don't think he has any religion in the meantime). Nevertheless, it will be good to know what are his principles for life, at least if we intend to share a life together.

Rein in...!!!!

I was told to hold my horses!!!
(my lawyer advises,"don't rush.")
Think I am having a crush on a friend whom I have been going out with exclusively for 2 saturdays. Last night he mentioned about going on a one-to-one trip with me in December. Was really thrilled about it in fact. Well, just two saturdays and I think he has already sounded out his retirement plans on me, which is still decades away.
Then this morning, all the no-nos from friends and lawyer. Okay noted.
Well, will wait a couple of months more. No harm anyway. It's just that I felt a bit let down, given the status I was in. Hope he will persist till February, which is the date my lawyer says it's permissible for me to go on a one-to-one relationship. :)